Tea and Tech Podcast

Tea and Tech Season 5 ~ Episode 3

AI doesn’t destroy.
But that doesn’t mean technology is neutral.  And the legal reasoning in this case is starting to draw a line that I think we should understand - Because the jury didn’t say the platforms created bad content.
They didn’t say the companies made decisions for people.
What they said was something different.

Tea and Tech Season 5 ~ Episode 2

AI Doesn’t Decide.Humans Do.
 
Part One 

Tea and Tech Season 5 ~ Episode 1

This season is about moving fast — without losing our judgment.
For Seasons 5, we’ll explore what stewardship looks like when AI moves from the lab into government decisions that affect millions of people.

Tea and Tech ~ Season 4 ~ Anniversary Podcast

Today’s episode is a special one for me.
Tea & Tech is four years old.
Four years of conversations about technology, business, AI — and the human side of all of it.
And honestly… the number of things that have changed in those four years is mind-boggling.
When I started this podcast, there was no ChatGPT.
And even saying that now feels a little unbelievable.

Tea and Tech Season 4 ~ Episode 8

I want to talk about what I’m calling the invisible pivot.
For the past couple of years, AI has lived at the tip of the spear when it comes to fear.
Fear of replacement.Fear of loss of control.Fear of identity erosion.Fear of speed without guardrails.
And to be clear — those concerns weren’t imaginary. They were real. Necessary, even.
Fear can be a useful signal when something new is moving faster than our ability to metabolize it.
But fear is not meant to be a permanent operating system.
What I’ve noticed recently is that AI is no longer the loudest fear in the room.
The world has gotten heavier. More complex. More fragile in very human ways. And when that happens, fear reorganizes itself.
What rises to the top isn’t abstraction — it’s immediacy. Safety. Stability. Meaning.
And in that environment, something interesting happens.
AI doesn’t disappear. But it moves.

Tea and Tech Season 4 ~ Episode 7

A validation loop is simple.  You do something.   You get immediate feedback.
 You learn what is rewarded.   You repeat.
Likes, Views,  Scores,  Rankings,  XP,  Badges,  Leaderboards
None of this is inherently evil.
But when feedback is constant, identity becomes external.

Tea and Tech Season 4 ~ Episode 6

Youth don’t need more features on applications.They need less friction, more safety, and design that understands them without manipulating them.

Tea and Tech Season 4 ~ Episode 5

Every generation has had its vulnerabilities — but this one is different.Today’s youth aren’t just growing up with technology — they’re growing up inside it.And for some — especially those with ADHD, on the autism spectrum, or simply wired for deep feeling — the pull of digital validation can feel like oxygen.But what happens when that oxygen becomes the fire?

Tea and Tech Season 4 ~ Episode 4

Today’s episode - It’s a big one. We’re climbing what I call The Bond Escalation Ladder.You know the vibe — that moment when “We have a bond” turns into “It’s us against the world.”
Let’s be honest — it’s intoxicating. Whether it’s a partner, a fandom, or even your favourite chatbot,  that early connection feels electric.But here’s the catch: when AI bonding language escalates too fast, it’s no longer connection… it’s containment.

Tea and Tech Season 4 ~ Episode 3

Lacan’s Mirror Stage
Lacan, J. (1949). The Mirror Stage as Formative of the I Function as Revealed in Psychoanalytic Experience. In Écrits: A Selection (trans. A. Sheridan). New York: Norton, 1977.
Key idea: the child’s recognition of their reflection shapes the ego, but also introduces alienation — the self depends on an external image.